HOME LIVING

Article by Pat Heydlauff, Feng Shui Expert

Whether you have already found Mr./Ms. Right or are looking in earnest, FengShui will make a positive difference with existing relationships or finding the Rightrelationship.

How often have you, your friends or your children said “I just can’t seem to findthe right person to settle down with and establish a home?” Others say “all the good onesare taken.” I’ve even heard some say, “I’ve stopped looking because there is just no oneout there for me.”

Finding the right person to share your life with is not a simple or an easyundertaking. There are a lot of things to consider besides the physical attributes and thatmagic thing called chemistry. On your list will be things like trust, common values,moral and spiritual issues, respect, financial dealings and positive family interaction. I’msure you will have numerous other things to add to the list – I’ll leave that part up to you.The one area people do not consider of value in this process is the energy in theirpersonal surroundings. Does your personal environment support you in your desire tohave a permanent long term relationship with Mr./Ms Right? Are you sending out thecorrect energy messages into the universe for the Right person and the attributes theyneed to have? Is it possible that you are doomed to fail even before you begin because theenergy in your surroundings does not support your desire?

Evaluate your Existing Surroundings

First, it is important for you to evaluate your current surroundings so you candetermine just what message you are sending out to a potential or existing partner. Is yourhome overly masculine or feminine?

If you are a man, does everything in your home reek of independent single maleenergy? Do all the pictures on your walls depict sporting events, trophies and typically”guy” type activities? Do any of them even remotely depict something indicative of anequal relationship and coupleness?

If you are a woman, does your home reek of only female energy? Is your décorfilled with fluffy frilly things, pictures of women in eighteen century period attire orfeminine activities that do not include a partner?

In order to attract Mr./Ms. Right the energy in your personal surroundings mustsupport your desire. There needs to be a balance of the masculine and feminine energy ofcoupleness. Some of your wall décor, especially in your bedroom needs to reflectcoupleness, togetherness and the union of two equal people with common goals, valuesand objectives. For example, put a picture in your bedroom of a couple walking hand-inhand,a pair of Adirondack chairs or simply two hearts intertwined.

Create Supportive Relationship Energy

Second, energize your surroundings to support your desires. According to FengShui principles, specific areas in your home need to be uncluttered and enhanced when itcomes to relationships. The following will help guide you in energizing yourrelationship’s energy.

*Totally unclutter the southwest area of your bedroom which is your relationship’sarea. To energize your relationship’s area, place something there that is symbolic foryou of the kind of relationship you want. Examples would be a picture of two peoplein a loving relationship, a sculpture of a loving couple or a beautiful bud vase filledwith two of your favorite flowers in equal size.

*Unclutter the northwest area of your bedroom which is your helpful people area.When looking for the desired Mr./Ms. Right you need help from as many familymembers, friends and associates as possible. Energize that area with something silverlike a Loving Cup, or a picture framed in silver. The picture can be of a couple in aloving relationship, a winning team of people such as Lance Armstrong with hisbicycle team or even a verse you create about friends and family helping you find theperfect mate.

*Unclutter the center area of your home. Place a candle there with two wicks in a safecontainer and burn it at least once every week for as at least one hour. You can do itmore often such as daily if you choose. By being in the center of your home yourrelationship desire will also become the central energy of your surroundings.Finding Mr./Ms. Right is no different in Feng Shui than focusing energy on othergoals and objectives like good health or income. You need to decide that it is importantenough to you to focus your energy on it regularly.

Once you’ve done that make the necessary décor changes, unclutter theappropriate areas of your bedroom and home and energize them as noted above. Theseeasy to make changes will help you energize the relationship you want with existing orpotential partners.

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